Don’t Obsess Over Getting Everything Done Before a Vacation

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Author: Scott Edinger

Like most people, I find the week before a vacation to be something of a nightmare, as I attempt to clear the decks before I go. On the face of it, this seems like a good idea—get your work done (and ideally, the work you would have done during the time you’ll be on vacation), and you can go off with your mind at rest. But I believe I’ve been thinking about this entirely backward.

Far from freeing you to enjoy that time away, what’s really happening is that you’re stealing energy from the future to clear the decks, and as a result turning your relaxation time into recuperation time. I need only go back to the last vacation I took to demonstrate this point. See if this sounds familiar: I was working on some deadlines (self-imposed, of course), and for three days leading up to our departure, I put in significantly more time and energy than usual. I stayed up very late the night before leaving, working until the early morning hours. Caffeine and excitement helped me get moving, but by mid-afternoon, I was toast. It took several days to make up the sleep deficit, and I missed out on having fun with my family while I got that extra sleep. Three days of a weeklong vacation is no small percentage. Worse, I know I was far less attentive and focused those first few days away than I typically am. I certainly didn’t maximize that precious and important time away from work.

How can you avoid making the same mistakes I did?

Maintain Your Regular Schedule Before Your Vacation

I’m not suggesting you need to be a slacker, but too many of us overdo it to get work done just before a holiday, thinking that we’ll make up for it with rest during our time off. That’s a mistake. So, as much as you can, try to make the week leading up to vacation a typical one in terms of the energy you expend or hours you put in. For those of you who say “I run hard all the time,” consider the difference between high speed and your maximum.

Check In on Vacation

It’s not entirely necessary to completely unplug from work while you’re on vacation. There are vacation purists who believe that any kind of attention to work during a vacation is a violation of one’s time to recharge. Then there are those who believe it’s okay to occasionally screen email for critical issues. Is there some sort of constructive compromise?

When you succumb to the seemingly sensible notion of stealing the odd moment of vacation downtime to slip in some work, your mind is as far away as it would be if you were physically in the office, as all of your companions are acutely aware. If you doubt this, picture your spouse or your children sitting at dinner with eyes cast down at their cell phones just at the moment some intriguing, surprising, or funny notion pops into your head that you want to share.

So, the idea is not to forbid contact with work but to establish clear ground rules about when you will engage in it, with the explicit recognition that when you’re engaged in work, you really aren’t on vacation. There’s no right way to do this, but here’s my rule of thumb: During a weeklong vacation, take at least 72 consecutive hours with no work, no email, and—if you are daring—no screens. For longer vacations, adjust the time accordingly or oscillate between the two. Then only spend 30 to 60 minutes a day quickly checking in on truly urgent issues. This allows you to be unplugged for the remainder of the day.

When I tried this, I experienced a major epiphany about how much checking my email on my phone is reflex rather than need. I asked my 11-year-old to take my phone and only give it to me when we needed to check something online related to one of our trivia games or vacation plans. I was shocked to see how often I reached for my phone, entirely out of habit rather than necessity. I reminded myself in those embarrassingly frequent moments to look up, take a breath, and notice something happening around me. As I became more fully engaged in the real world, I discovered I really liked the feeling of not having my phone for a few days. It is decidedly liberating. And when I returned to my phone on check-in days, I found it easier to avoid being sucked in by email.

Accept That Work Will Be Fine Without You

To be able to truly go on vacation, convince yourself that the world can do without you during that time. This is at once self-evident, critical, and very difficult to accept. I’m not saying you don’t make a difference, or even that you won’t be missed. But I am suggesting any negative impact will be modest and quickly ameliorated upon your return.

I own my own business, so the stakes for its success could not be higher for both me and my family. But even so, some of the so-called “urgency” I’ve created isn’t urgent at all. Most deadlines or expectations with clients, staffers, and myself can be negotiated. One of my clients said to me a few months ago, “I don’t really have the time to take this vacation.” If you’re nodding your head here, that’s a clue that you need to take a step back and realistically think through your concerns. I find making them physically concrete, by actually making a list of your concerns, can help. Then consider the impact and the worst possible consequences of each. I expect you’ll see they’re rarely unrecoverable. Add to that the likelihood of anything occurring at its most severe level, and you’ll be thinking clearly and see that it is possible to take time off.

If it makes you feel better, take your peers, direct reports, and perhaps even your boss through the same thought process. Ask them to consider the implications of your time off and think through the probable scenarios, as well as the odds of their happening. For many of us, our work is such a vital part of our lives that we have a distorted view of our own importance. When we step back and change our perspective, we give ourselves permission to not be indispensable for a time. Odds are, the world will be okay if you’re out for a week or so.

Invest wisely in your time off through preparation, shifting your mindset, and limiting your engagement with what’s going on back at the office, and you can expect to accomplish great things when you return, truly rejuvenated.

Scott Edinger is the founder of Edinger Consulting Group. He is a coauthor of the HBR article “Making Yourself Indispensable.” His latest book is The Hidden Leader: Discover and Develop Greatness Within Your Company. Follow him on Twitter: @ScottKEdinger.