Going on Vacation Doesn’t Have to Stress You Out at Work

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Author: Elizabeth Grace Saunders

Vacations are the things that dreams and cruise commercials are made of. Ideally, you come back refreshed, recharged, and ready to go. But sometimes, the exact opposite is true. Who among us hasn’t said at some point, usually the day before we leave, “Trying to take this vacation is so stressful, it would have been better not to go at all!” Sometimes vacation stress is unavoidable, but most times it’s manageable if we prepare for it more strategically. As the owner of a time coaching and training company, I have found that many of my clients tell me that they were able to take their first really refreshing vacation in years by using the following strategies.

Initial Office Scheduling

One of the most important elements of reducing stress around your vacation is to decide well in advance when you’ll take time off. This gives you the opportunity to protect the time before and after your holiday from too many commitments. It also gives you the ability to make thoughtful choices as you pull the details of your trip together. Having lead time reduces stress to such a degree that one of my clients who does high-end travel planning requires at least three months of advance notice.

Once you know that you want to take a vacation, immediately block out those dates on your calendar as “out of the office.” It’s best to not make plans for any scheduled items like conference calls while you’re traveling. This way, the only work activities that you might end up doing during your vacation are the truly unexpected and urgent ones. Sure, you may have to check in on one or two things while you’re away—life happens—but you should avoid having to do your regular work during your time out of the office.

Although you may be tempted to pack in as many meetings as you can before and after a trip, you’ll end up feeling more relaxed if you create a buffer around your vacation. Schedule time a few days before you leave to wrap up projects, take care of important emails, and attend any truly urgent meetings. Reserve at least the first day that you return to the office to get your head back into work and clear out your inbox. It’s the office equivalent of promptly getting your suitcases unpacked and your home in order instead of staying half unpacked for days or weeks on end.

Initial Travel Planning

How you structure your trip also has a significant impact on how refreshed you’ll feel when you get back. I recommend taking at least a half day off of work before you leave to give yourself some margin for tackling any final packing details or errands. When you originally purchase your tickets, it’s worth spending the extra money to travel at reasonable times. Having to get up at 3 a.m. to catch a flight will not put you in a good state of mind for your travels, and being sleep deprived makes it more likely that you’ll get sick. And since you’re planning well in advance, you’ll find more affordable flights.

As you plan activities, don’t just think about what you want to see or do; think about the sort of experience you want to have. Just because you’re in Paris for the first time doesn’t mean that you need to go to every museum on the map. You may find that you feel much happier—and more refreshed—by spending time at a few important spots and then giving yourself the luxury of sitting at a café for a few hours or taking a leisurely stroll.

If you’re traveling with children, focus on simplicity, especially with very young kids, who are quite content with a pool to play in and a slower pace. Plan for everything to take longer than you’d expect, and relax into the fact that you’re on vacation, so that’s just fine.

The Week Before You Leave

At home: If you plan on taking a substantial vacation, start packing—or at least running errands—early. I find that blocking out time the weekend before the final week of work dramatically decreases the number of last-minute trips to the pharmacy or the dry cleaner.

At work: Coordinate with your colleagues so that everyone has clear expectations for what you will and won’t be doing while you’re out of the office. That could mean giving others the authority to make decisions on certain projects, or letting them know that in specific situations they should contact you.

Use your out-of-office message on your email and phone wisely. I like to state that I’m out of the office until X date and that I will return messages as promptly as possible after that time. That sets the expectation that I won’t reply while on vacation and also that it may take a few days after I return to the office to reply. Additionally, if you start your out-of-office auto response a day before you actually leave, it’ll be easier to extract yourself from the office on time, as you’ll be able to focus on what’s most essential during your last day in the office.

The Week You Return

To maximize the relaxing benefits of your vacation, have a good reentry plan. Arrive home a day early—or at least earlier in the day—so that you have some time to unpack, do laundry, and get a good night’s sleep. Make a plan for the following day, so that you have a clear sense of how to approach your first day back in the office. Finally, instead of focusing on the fact that you’re no longer on vacation, think about how grateful you are for the time you had away. Gratitude creates joy that can carry you through the initial shock of returning to “real life.”

As you’re planning your next getaway, make it truly refreshing by trying these strategies.

Elizabeth Grace Saunders is the author of How to Invest Your Time Like Money (Harvard Business Review Press, 2015), a time coach, and the founder of Real Life E Time Coaching & Training. Find out more at www.RealLifeE.com.